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Condition 1: Contains text "若夫父慈子孝姑愛婦順兄友弟恭夫敬妻聽朋友必信師長必教有司日月慮知乎州閭矣" Matched:1.
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君子必貴其言。貴其言則尊其身,尊其身則重其道,重其道所以立其教。言費則身賤,身賤則道輕,道輕則教廢。故君子非其人則弗與之言,若與之言,必以其方。農夫則以稼穡,百工則以技巧,商賈則以貴賤,府史則以官守,大夫及士則以法制,儒生則以學業。故《》曰:「艮其輔,言有序。」不失事、中之謂也。。雖庸人則亦循循然與之言此,可也;過此而往,則不可也。故君子之與人言也,使辭足以達其知慮之所至,事足以合其性情之所安,弗過其任而強牽制也。苟過其任而強牽制,則將昏瞀委滯,而遂疑君子以為欺我也,不則曰「無聞知」矣。非故也。明偏而示之以幽,弗能照也;聽寡而告之以微,弗能察也;斯所資於造化者也。雖曰無訟,其如之何?故孔子曰:「可與言而不與之言,失人;不可與言而與之言,失言。知者不失人,亦不失言。」夫君子之於言也,所致貴也,雖有夏后之璜,商湯之駟,弗與易也。今以施諸俗士,以為志誣而弗貴聽也,不亦辱己而傷道乎!是以君子將與人語大本之源,而談性、義之極者,必先度其心志,本其器量,視其銳氣,察其墮衰,然後唱焉以觀其和,導焉以觀其隨。隨、和之徵發乎音聲,形乎視聽,著乎顏色,動乎身體,然後可以發而步遠,功察而治微;於是乎闓張以致之,因來以進之,審諭以明之,雜稱以廣之,立準以正之,疏煩以理之。疾而勿迫,徐而勿失,雜而勿結,放而勿逸,欲其自得之也。故大禹善治水,而君子善導人;導人必因其性,治水必因其勢;是以功無敗而言無棄也。

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