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Confucianism -> Liji -> Tan Gong II -> 127

If a Great officer pay a visit of condolence (to an ordinary officer),
and he arrive when (the latter) is occupied with the business of the occasion,
an apology is made (for not coming to the gate to receive him).
When one has paid a visit of condolence,
he should not on the same day show manifestations of joy.
A wife should not go beyond the boundaries of the state on a visit of condolence.
On the day when he has made a visit of condolence, one should not drink spirits nor eat flesh.
When one pays a visit of condolence,
and the arrangements for the funeral are going on, he should take hold of the ropes (attached to the car).
Those who follow to the grave should take hold of those attached to the coffin.
During the mourning rites,
if the ruler send a message of condolence,
there must be some one to acknowledge it, by bowing to the messenger.
A friend, or neighbour, or even a temporary resident in the house, may perform the duty.
The message is announced in the words:
寡君。」 'Our unworthy ruler wishes to take part in your (sad) business.'
The chief mourner responds:
。」 'We acknowledge your presence with his message.'
When a ruler meets a bier on the way,
使 he must send some one to present his condolences (to the chief mourner).


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